Its Never Too Late For Love

(Please note, names have been changed to protect the privacy of the the families involved in this story)

I read for two sisters some years ago who had lost their mum. I was really pleased to of been able to give these lovely ladies some good soul survival evidence during their sitting. They reflected  and they got a lot of comfort from our time together knowing mum was doing well in the spirit world and had come through loud and clear for them.

I sat for them a few times more over the next few years. They told me about their father who was grieving the loss of his wife. They advised me that dad didn’t believe in spiritualism but was taking interest in the evidence I had provided at each sitting. The messages for the family were nice to hear too.

I was curious what the occasion was when I was asked to do a reading on a specific day by the sisters. It wasn’t one of my normal reading days but I obliged as I was aware it was for a very special either anniversary or birthday.

Sure enough it turned out the sitting was for their dad Martin who had conceded to sit for a reading as an 80th birthday present which was that day. Martin arrived looking very smart in a  suit and tie  and as he sat down, he politely and gently informed me that ”He didn’t really believe in this”. I said that was fine and handed all my good intentions over to the spirit world.

In no time at all a link had been established with his wife. I was able to tell him specific details about her which I could feel his unbelieving mind fighting me on. So I asked her to give me something really good. Something that would truly bring him comfort and be a powerful piece of evidence (what I like to call a golden nugget) With that she said that he had the necklace on that she had given him. I couldn’t see it as he had a shirt and tie on. As I relayed the message he loosened his tie and became emotional as he undid his top button and as he pulled the necklace out he said “ I really miss her you know”. I know I replied and then she showed me a red rose in a vase and she asked me to thank him for the rose he had placed in the vase for that morning.
I was pleased to see his jaw drop as he informed me he had indeed placed a bunch of red roses in a vase for her that very morning.

Martin was by now starting to realise that on some level I did indeed have a contact with his wife. He may not of understood it, but he seemed more willing to go with it. We discussed the fact that he had been lonely and was contemplating a new relationship with an old friend of whom his wife has not liked. He was wary that she might disapprove. The stumbling block was that this “friend” was still in a marriage and Martin would have to wait until she too became a widow.

His wife informed his that if he wanted a new relationship she was fine with it but not to waste time waiting for the lady in question. After all he had just turned 80, how long did he think he had left.? In short, if that is what you want, get on with it.

She said that he had recently started ventured out again now he was starting to recover a bit from the overwhelming grieve that had made him a recluse since she has passed. She informed him that he would meet a lady there. With that we ended the reading. I left her love with him and he left.

Some time later I sat for a lady called Jean who has been widowed about 2 years before. She had met someone whom she had become very fond of but was wary of upsetting her deceased husband. Her husband joined us from spirit and gave his blessing for her happiness and as she stood to leave she informed me that SHE was the lady whom had met Martin at the club some months after his reading. I was delighted for them both and wished them both all the best.

Several months passed and Martin booked another sitting but this time for himself and Jean his new partner. Spirit told me that they had become engaged and would soon be married. Sure enough as we started their reading with their respective spouses from spirit once again joining us,  it was confirmed that they were busy planning a wedding.

Again they sought the permission and approval and were given it with love. They were told a date in May that the wedding would happen and they disagreed saying they were planning a different date. I chuckled to myself when I heard that the wedding would actually go ahead on the day predicted instead as their chosen date was not possible.

My thoughts often went to the lovely couple who had dared to start again and find love and companionship and I wished them many years of happiness.

I was very sad to see a post by one of the sisters on Facebook a few years later informing us all that her dad had passed away. So once again poor Jean will be burying another husband but I’m sure he leaves her with some wonderful memories. I am also delighted to see that one of the sisters has finally become a mum. I know dad will be smiling down on them and delighted at the new grandson who has joined the family.

And the moral of my story is it’s never too late to find love, companionship and happiness and loved ones in spirit do not see it as disloyalty. After all the marriage vows only say “until death do we part”. The discarnate soul who has left this realm to continue their journey know things that we don’t. One is that those still incarnate here in the physical world must still have lessons to learn and experiences to have and so all will be as it was meant when you “live on”.